• Stamets@lemmy.worldOP
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    11 months ago

    I mean if transphobes are killing themselves then I really don’t care.

    If you mean this is an argument they use… Not familiar with it personally. Posted this, and have it saved, because my mother was a narcissistic psychopath who destroyed me.

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      11 months ago

      What I mean is that they bully trans people into killing themselves and then try to treat being trans like a mental illness because of the suicide rate. Fun fact about the trans suicide rate: when a trans person is allowed to live out with the support of their community, it returns to within delta of the suicide rate for cis people. Trans people aren’t inherently any more suicidal than anyone else, and while we’d never be able to run such an unethical experiment I’d bet my house that if cis people had to deal with the constant bullying, othering and violence trans people deal with they’d probably kill themselves a lot more too.

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        11 months ago

        I knew about the suicide statistics but I didn’t know that people were actively using those statistics as a ‘cudgel’ to try to go against trans folks, thus my confused ignorance on that. Well fuck. Definitely something i’ll be keeping an eye out for in the future to make sure that no one does that shit in /c/Gay or other places that I’m active in…

        Thank you for explaining, Twink Freud.

        Sorry I was going to end that with a heart emoji but then I saw your username and couldn’t stop laughing. I love it.

        • Alien Nathan Edward@lemm.ee
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          11 months ago

          I saw your username and couldn’t stop laughing

          thanks, I like to have fun with them. For a while last month I was Camille Pagliacci.