I took my girlfriend and friend out to dinner.

Friend says, “I love living with someone.”

Turning to my girlfriend, she asks, “how do you feel?”

My girlfriend looks at me and then replies, “it’s…fine.”

What do you feel is an appropriate response?

I sat down with her later and tried to talk about it, but she said she was joking. I just don’t get the joke.

  • sjh@sh.itjust.worksOP
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    1 year ago

    Ok, thank you for your help! I don’t want to make mountains out of molehills but I am pretty hurt. I’ll think hard on what you said.

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      1 year ago

      If you’re genuinely hurt, tell that to her. I’m sure she didn’t intend to do so and will probably be more careful when speaking about you. With that said, you’re definitely overthinking this and should promise let it go after that.

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      1 year ago

      If you’re hurt you should tell her. I think we’re all assuming you have the type of relationship where you could joke about this kind of thing. But if that’s not the case, or you’re not comfortable with it, I think you should tell her it bothered you.