I recognize what you’re saying. I’ve accepted it to some degree but I don’t like it. I think it also comes down to different views, morals and values. It’s easy to look at a person that misbehaves according to your own values and feel disappointed by them. One thing to remember is that they have their own views about what’s right and wrong and your own views aren’t necessarily the right ones.
Watching a CNC mill grind away excess material is like porn to me. Very satisfying stuff to watch.