There are things I don’t enjoy doing that my partner does, and vice-versa, so we let each other do those things. Sometimes we’ll participate in each other’s things to show support/make an appearance, at the cost of some discomfort. I’m generally the hermit crab that wants/needs to be alone. Then in common we have things we enjoy doing together. It’s actually pretty simple once you let things naturally unfold and have trust that just because you’re not with each other 100% of the time, doesn’t mean you don’t love one another.

Imagine being excited about a button

Hated it every time I used it in every codebase. Dogshit APIs that suddenly change dramatically every major version