Well, one solution seems fairly obvious. Have a drink or two to lower inhibitions and loosen up but be careful with that one. Super easy to overdo it.
What about having a get together someplace more private? Your place or a friend’s.
I’m with you tho, bars suck.
I’ve been trying to focus on ones that have quests, so I have a clear path to follow. But it seems like, if there’s quests, there a bajillion quests which is also overwhelming. I’ve made some custom modpacks and those suffer even worse because I have no clear goals. After you’ve put a few thousand hours in a game, it gets hard to define any achievable goals that you’ve not done yet.
I switched over a few months ago. It works great! Not having to worry about the bill is very nice.
I have this with big Minecraft modpacks. Sometimes I just get overwhelmed with all the stuff to do, and I get none of it done. I wonder if it’s related to ADHD or autism. I’ve not been diagnosed with either because I avoid doctors like the plague but when you check literally every box for a disease… Welp.
I just never set mine up so when you call me and I predicably don’t answer, it just says “This user has a mailbox that has not been set up yet. Please try your call again later.” What I’d rather it say is “Hang up and text me like a normal person. If you can’t text me, I don’t want to hear from you anyway.”