i’ve never liked the idea of having to come out of the closet. I want to be able to say “oh, my boyfriend cooked my lunch, I don’t know what spices he used, i can ask him”, without it turning into “oh i didn’t know you were gay, thanks for letting me know, so brave” or something weird. we were talking about lunch, not who i like to sleep with

the only thing i can see is WWWWEEEE

i never say lgbt, it feels heavy, especially with the full lgbtqia (I already don’t know what can come after)

i use gay for any kind of not straight sexuality, and queer to me also includes trans stuff, ace, aro…

we’re not cis and or straight, we’re queer

oh is that not on java at all ?

if you’re not aware of that whole thing, the issue is not that mojang is banning people for using slurs, it’s that their list of bad words with way too broad, and you might get banned for saying “night” or I think even “zzzzz” or whatever things you might say as you’re going to sleep.

banning for slur, yes very good banning for a word that’s in a naughty list that’s not bad or even pretty common, that’s silly

is revolt good ? I’m in no desilusion that i’d be able to make my friends move away from discord, but maybe for new communities ?

so far it’s really nice, it’s what I liked in reddit and before that forums, without being what reddit became.

the fediverse is hard though, but it kinda makes sense. I’ll see if I get more used to it