Canadian-American software developer living in Japan since 2015. Into gardening, DIY, permaculture, etc.

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I didn’t miss it so much as I didn’t think it was that important, but you’re right that it’s not a bad point to bring up. That 64.9m^2 is actually bigger than the 2LDK+Loft I live in now (55.x + the loft) in a freestanding house. For two of us, it’s mostly fine. Just because I work from home, I’d like a little more space, but it’s worked fine. Previously, my apartment was I think 32m^2 or so, which again was mostly fine.

    People here aren’t used to f-off big houses like in the US (I can’t speak for Aus), so I think of it less as a problem and more of a “this is what we do” type of thing. In the post-war boom in the US, it seems a lot of newer houses were around 92M^2 (single-source quick google), but I know that number is way higher today. Anecdotally, I’ve not found wanting bigger spaces something that a lot of my friends have mentioned (until they have toddlers and older anyway, heh), particularly when a lot of them are only home to sleep, eat, and shower.


  • Healthcare costs, etc. are quite different if you’re used to the US system. We still pay something at point-of-service, but it’s nothing like the US. We are legally required to have insurance (some companies will cover some or all of this), but it’s also based on income.

    I know lots of bartenders and such (and remember, no tips here) who live on their own and have money to spend. Definitely not glamorous or anything, but doable. Some, like my wife before I met her, live in fairly nice and central roomshares with another person.

    I can’t really use my expenses to show anything useful as I eat lots of (more expensive) western foods/meat/cheese, work from home and usually have some kind of climate control going, have propane rather than city gas, etc.

















    • any 3d Zelda games. I didn’t play OOT until I was in my late 20s and it was awful (specifically controls and camera). I tried watching people Speedrun it or do the randomizer, but the sound link makes when rolling (which most did most of the time) drove me crazy. BotW seemed like something I would like on paper, but Nintendo just had to work their new controls into some shrines and I found it frustrating. Also didn’t like the breaking weapons. Link Between Worlds (神様のトライフォース 2) sits in a weird place. I mostly liked it, but hated the gimmicky 3d bits on the 3DS.
    • goldeneye for the same reasons - felt like a step backward and I had no nostalgia for it, playing it for the first time in my 30s.
    • anything with the N64 controller for the same reasons. It felt so unnatural and weird.
    • most roguelikes (but not all). Losing to random chance is annoying. Some randomness is of course fine
    • dark souls and the like. Watch boss. Die. Try again. Die. To me, that’s boring. I’d rather have in-world ways of learning about the boss.
    • pokemon. I was already in high school, working part time, and doing a lot of school stuff (band/theatre/sports) and just never got into it. I tried Pokemon go and didn’t care for it (but did like Dragon Quest Walk that came out later)
    • Final Fantasy 7 – hated the camera and other similar things. Story and all was fine
    • Most 3rd person shooters (with the exception of Just Cause). I would line up the perfect shot in Sniper Elite only to shoot the few pixels of the corner of something I couldn’t see because my character’s dumb body was in the way
    • starfox. I was already playing better games like that on Amiga and other platforms, so it felt like a step back to me