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  • To me, that just applies to relationships in shows in general. Some are just completely unnecessary, and sometimes that extends to queer ones too, but it’s not the queerness that is to blame, it’s the forced or uncomfortable romance.

    I think romance is overused in shows in general, but I suppose it makes sense since it does make up a lot of people’s existence, so I guess it’s something to be tolerated.











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    11 months ago

    Well here you’re still treating the problem as if all men are the same and the problem. No, men only spaces aren’t like that, maybe some are, but they’ll be few and far between. Both sexes have their toxic gatherings. Perhaps one more than the other, but that’s not what you’re saying.

    Also saying suicide and drug addiction are self inflicted issues and therefore you shouldn’t help them??? What??? That is absolutely an indicator of a wider problem at play that needs to be worked on. People do those things to escape the reality they’re in because it does not support them. Sound familiar? You have more in common than you think.

    I will agree though that there is an unfair advantage that men have, and all the issues you brought up there are real. Both issues can be things that need to be solved, it’s not either or.


  • I can totally understand why it might feel that way, but for me it’s helped, and maybe I can tell you how.

    Whenever I get depressed or sad about my condition, it’s provided an additional stress outlet by being able to just cuddle something that I can put as the focus for it. There’s probably other healthy coping mechanisms you can do, but having something cute and cuddly as the focus also stops me from focusing on things I shouldn’t as much, it makes the world and the condition seem less scary to me. I mean how can it be scary right? There’s something cute and cuddly that has the same thing. I know that’s not unflawed logic, but it helps.