German, Dad, GM , Mini Painter, 3D Printer, dysfunctional gifted kid - he/him

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I will usually just acknowledge it without giving an explanation. People will almost always accept that. Examples.

    Oh I think I just got carried away there. Let’s take a step back. Do you have any questions?

    Hey I think I got a bit too excited about the project for a sec. I hope that wasn’t too much.

    It’s usually fine and takes the awkwardness out of the situation if there was any. And it shows people you realized what was going on. That’s usually all they need to hear. No apology and no justifications or explanations needed. I found those would often just make it worse rather than better. Just be brief and move on. The longer you stay in the topic of an awkward situation the more it will stay awkward.



  • Dad of a very active daughter here. I know the feeling exactly.

    Two things helped me and her mom immensely.

    For the keeping our of trouble part it is such much better to set up a safe enclosed environment for her to explore safely rather than running after her. We made the living room child safe.

    The other thing is I changed to prepping everything for my morning routine in the evening. For the same reason you described. It only gets worse when they don't sleep through the night so I was very happy I did.