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Cake day: October 4th, 2023

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  • Some people simply don’t know how to be good friends. You really shouldn’t take it personal

    I’ve just had to learn my closest friends simply aren’t capable of providing emotional connection like I’d like. I’m working on becoming a better friend to them, meeting them where they are , trying to figure out how to provide for and validate my own emotional needs, so I can eventually work up the courage, or whatever it is I need, to meet friends that are more emotionally mature enough to have the real connections I’m looking for

    I once delayed a party where I had tons of family over because my friends hadn’t arrived. They didn’t get there until like 10 or something, after I’d already told them to just fuck off. The thing is, they are my friends and they legit care about me in their own (weird to me) ways. I’ve just come to realize they’ve got legit issues, as I do (part of why we’re drawn to being friends), that they’re working on to varying degrees, and I simply can’t expect more from them than they’re capable of giving

    Good luck finding a chill healthy tribe of folks that shares similar values to your own!








  • And I’m picking most of them out!

    …unless I’m with a pretty girl… and I have a chance… or I’m in literally any other kind of social setting where I might feel uncomfortable and uncool

    That said, I finally had a chance to try White Castle this year and purposely ate a couple sliders the way they came. Not bad. Oniony as hell, but I kinda get it. They were so well cooked it was almost like a sauce



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    2 months ago

    I assumed I did something wrong. I initially blamed explorerpatcher. Made sense (at the time) to get it fixed before I had to work Friday morning

    Now it doesn’t even have the stuff my company installed! Woops

    The worst bit was once I finally called IT (~10pm, was gonna leave a message or something) they had a recorded message saying they were aware of the BSOD issue. Facepalms were indeed had

    I want to say I wish they’d sent out some kind of email asap, but I can’t really say I wouldnt have tried to fix it myself. Safe mode wasn’t working!! Literally never seen that happen. Oh well, lesson learned




  • I could spend a little extra money but I’m a bit depressed, mainly in the mornings and evenings. What does that get me?

    I’ll start the bidding at: OK to use Amazon, but I have to skip prime day and black friday/cyber monday. Also, I’ll only subscribe to prime on monthly basis and cancel it at least more than 3 months each year so it’s less than the annual subscription