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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • This is about the Americas, yes? I believe its original roots was in Calvinism, that is, the brand of Christianity in the reformation era that was brought over to the Americas by early European settlers/colonisers as proposed by the theologian John Calvin. It’s something about how God chose its people and gave them the grace of worldly wealth. Wealth is good because it comes from God, so it follows, that poverty is due to a lack of God’s grace = immorality (laziness, lack of personal qualities, wickedness).

    I think I read about this in a book about US American economy a couple of years ago, but I can’t remember which book it was.



  • Which is sad, because the way for women of that milieu to have any standing in society or a disposable income is by marrying. And the way to “seal and secure” the marriage is to have children ASAP.

    I had a part time job when I was in uni. It was a crappy job at a cinema (it was not crappy, it was actually a load of fun, but you know, “crappy”), but I’m a millennial. My mother’s cousin told me she used to want to do part time at a store, just to have her own money (her husband had a flashy job), but hubby told her not to do it, because, “What if our friends visit that store? Where do we put our face?”

    Saving face… pffftt. I believe this is still the sentiment in places like Hongkong, certain classes in India, in Indonesia, etc. Upper class women shouldn’t work or study, lest it makes them look working class.


  • I noticed this just last night. I wanted to watch an episode of a comforting show, and I’ve had it prepared to go. I only had to press play. Then I got a notification about a new video on a Youtube channel I subscribe to, so I started watching that instead. Midway through, I remember that my medicine cabinet needed replenishing, so I opened another tab to look for the medications I needed and I made a list of the things I was going to buy next time. By that time, about two hours had passed from when I prepared the comforting show, I didn’t finish the Youtube video, and it felt like two hours where I did a lot but achieved nothing. It was as if my brain was slipping from my grasp and it was a scary feeling.


  • Rich white women of a certain age might have been the ones whose parents chose to not send to college over their brothers. Perhaps this goes for rich women of any colour. My mother’s (now 68 yo) parents sent her brothers to college, not the girls. My mother got a vocational training, contributed to the brothers college funds, and then finally paid for herself through college. My mother’s not white.

    I believe that most people have a certain hunger for information and education, and if college wasn’t an option, they’d look for these educations elsewhere.