I’m married sixteen years and super happy. I guess it just depends on who you marry

Here’s a list of dope stuff you could get into

• volunteering (animal shelters, fire fighting, etc)
• working out
• hiking
• YouTube yoga
• personal finance / budget tracking
• DMing/playing TRPG games
• smoking meat
• making bread
• taking music lessons
• get really good at giving amazing massages with a friend or partner (and swap so they can get good too)
• building electronics
• sewing backpacks and hiking gear
• running
• painting minifigs with friends (invite them over and have good food and chill music, maybe some herbal relaxants)
• board game nights with friends
• aluminum smelting
• gardening
• small home remodeling projects (painting, flooring, wallboard, new shower, etc)
• painting (oil, watercolor, digital)
• attending art atelier
• crewing with a sailboat racing (just a chill beer league)
• mixed art (wood, metal, sculptures, clay)
• work through an entire cookbook
• throw super fancy dinner parties
• host block parties
• join CrossFit / group workout and make friends

I used to make maps by hand. Over time I got better and better at holding on to where I was. I’ve read studies that playing 3d games increases spacial awareness, so it might get better over time.

Other options I do when I’m too meh to bother is mods to add maps and quest tracking if the game doesn’t already have it

In Middle-earth’s realm, where tales unfold,

Gordon Ramsay, bold and brash, strolled.

To Gollum’s dark cave, he ventured, keen,

Seeking a meal, not raw fish, but beans, pristine.

But Gollum, his eyes gleaming, offered his fare,

Slippery fish, the stench filling the air.

Yet Ramsay’s demand remained, unwavering, it seems,

“I want beans, not this rubbish,” he yelled and he screamed.

In the Shire’s golden meadows, where sunbeams dance,

Tom Bombadil’s song of beans, a joyful romance.

With merry laughter, he sings of their delight,

Their tender skins, their flavors, both day and night.

From pinto to navy, kidney to black,

Beans, his true love, a hearty snack.

In Tom’s jolly heart, their magic is seen,

For nothing quite matches his love for beans.

Yeah lots of bean action happening