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  • OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.oneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    2 months ago

    A lot of people are offering explanations, but I think I’m going to give one too.

    Think of recoil in a gun. If you don’t have a mental image of it, watch a few youtube videos of people firing handguns. Look for videos of big, high-recoil handguns, like the Desert Eagle or the Magnum (or the Super Ruger Redhawk according to chat-GPT).

    You need to get a good look at handguns pushed backwards as they are fired.

    Now think about this: those bullets aren’t pushing against an atmosphere. They are pushing only against the inside of a gun.

    But when this tiny, tiny bullet pushes super-fast against the gun, using the gun to accelerate to incredibly high speeds very quickly… it pushes the gun really hard in the other direction.

    Get that mental image into your head. Small object can push large object with a lot of force by kicking off of large object with insane speed.

    Now: Take away the person holding the gun. Take away the planet. Take away the atmosphere. Put that gun in space and pull the trigger again. (Just make sure to use a gun that has modern ammunition that doesn’t require oxygen to fire).

    What happens to all that recoil? What does the recoil do to the gun now? The bullet still goes flying out of the chamber. Still does this by pushing against the gun.

    Hopefully it should now be easy to imagine that the gun will start moving.

    Rocket fuel is basically a tank full of bullets.

    The main function of rocket fuel is “heavy stuff that is shoved out of the spaceship to make it move.”

    The reason we use highly explosive fuel is because “shoving heavy stuff away from you at the speed of a bullet” is going to move you more than “shoving heavy stuff away from you at normal speed.”

    Does this make any sense?


  • I think the idea that billionaires are created by any kind of motive is the wrong lens.

    Their wealth doubles faster if they lack egalitarian values. So the millionaires who end up becoming billionaires are the ones who lack egalitarian values.

    The values they do hold could be anything from, “everyone wants to win; I’m just winning harder” to “God told me to” and it won’t matter as long as they keep reinvesting and growing their wealth faster than the economy or ecosystem can sustain.

    What we’re witnessing right now is not a set of ideas or beliefs, but an exponential growth equation – with all of the overwhelming speed and transformative power such an equation carries.

    Exponential growth is the reason for everything from the mammoths’ extinction to rotten food and the lethality of cancer. It transforms entire systems, outgrowing (and often destroying) its own host.

    If your society has currency but lacks any chemotherapy / surgery to remove concentrations of the aforementioned currency that start growing at a cancerous rate…

    Then it won’t matter what values are common or uncommon: your society is eventually doomed.

    It could take a hundred years or a thousand, but eventually, a pile of wealth will emerge that multiplies until it consumes everything.




  • OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.oneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    10 months ago

    Plus “math skills” is one of those areas where stereotypes and self-fulfilling prophesies have incredibly influential power.

    Math is difficult for everyone, and emotional factors like, “having the confidence of yourself and your peers” are important in making it through difficulty.


  • OwenEverbinde@lemmy.myserv.oneOPtoADHD@lemmy.worldOfficial diagnostic tests?
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    10 months ago

    that indecisiveness would be taken into account in a professional screening

    These words have been helpful to me. I kind of stopped worrying about it after reading this, and just started focusing on getting myself a referral and appointment. It’s ridiculously slow getting any kind of appointment through my healthcare provider (and I still haven’t seen them yet) but I appreciate not having to worry about “should I be preparing for this?” in the interim.


  • I can take a guess at what it tells us.

    We’re lonely. We get no physical contact. No touch. No warmth. And it’s not really socially acceptable for us to seek those things, because men are scolded for emotions and vulnerability. We are scolded for anything that would enable intimacy.

    And it’s to such an extent that most men are so repressed they don’t even realize they crave intimacy. They don’t even have the vocabulary to describe their need for intimacy.

    Now introduce, to such a man, a “sister.”

    Heavy emphasis on the quotes.

    The “story” of the porn, using their family ties as a shortcut, quickly establishes that she lives with him. She bonds with him. It’s socially acceptable for him to hug her, to wrestle with her, maybe even to cuddle her. And she will always be there, because her connection to him runs deeper than most “romantic” relationships can (we’re still assuming this man can’t articulate his own need for intimacy), so he doesn’t need to worry about her abandoning him.

    Naturally, this emotionally repressed man is going to look at this fictional family member, this figment of his suspension of disbelief, and say, “well I want to 🦆 her!” (I always find my keyboard’s lack of profanity amusing. I refuse to teach such an innocent piece of software how to cuss.)

    What he really means is that he appreciates that intimacy. And cannot really get turned on in its absence. But he can’t say that. He can’t admit that or even know that. Because this man is not only starved of all of the above: he can’t even articulate this starvation.

    Daughters? Sisters? Mothers? They all serve the same purpose as a shortcut – “here’s a person who is intimate and trusting with you by default.” The familial bond is a fast, easy way to establish prebuilt trust and affection without spending 20-30 minutes on storytelling or 20-30 hours of therapy trying to convince a repressed audience that it’s okay to have a deep, intimate, trusting connection with this consenting woman.

    In other words, what it tells us about society isn’t good.