Yeah that was the issue. I though I had switched to my LTE network connection from my phone, but my phone was still on my local network.

Thanks for the answer

You are right and I should have been more precise.

I understand why docker was created and became popular because it abstracts a lot of the setup and make deployment a lot easier.

I hate how docker made it so that a lot of projects only have docker as the official way to install the software.

This is my tinfoil opinion, but to me, docker seems to enable the “phone-ification” ( for a lack of better term) of softwares. The upside is that it is more accessible to spin services on a home server. The downside is that we are losing the knowledge of how the different parts of the software work together.

I really like the Turnkey Linux projects. It’s like the best of both worlds. You deploy a container and a script setups the container for you, but after that, you have the full control over the software like when you install the binaries

I edited the post. Since it’s all local it’s fine to show the IP. It’s just a reflex to hide my ips.

I use IP directly as I don’t have a local domain configured properly.

The outpost ip in my configuration file is the same provided in the outpost on Authentik.

I am trying to get it to work still, but I am pretty sure that the issue is between Authentik and Firefly.

I don’t see any of the headers (x-authentik-email more specifically) specified in the caddy file when Authentik is sending the request to Firefly. The only header I see is x-authentik-auth-callback.

I am not sure how I can specify which headers are sent in Authentik.

Thanks for the suggestion

I am open to paid SMTP service if you have any suggestion. I was not planning on running my own instance.

Otherwise, what would be my options to have a functional SMTP server for Authelia?

I did not say that. You are clearly arguing in bad faith just to make your point.

This conversation is going nowhere and I won’t spend more energy on it.

Do you realize that the exemple you give is the same principle as you criticize?

It sends my dysphoria through the roof every time.

But even I can manage not to get bent out of shape […]

You are sure about that? Dysphoria is a pretty big deal.

Seems to me you still internalize the generalization made about people in your situation and it does affect you. Same as my examples.

I can make the difference between women calling “all men” and myself as a person, and that wasn’t my point.

If everywhere you look, there is someone or something telling you that you are a bad person because of something you can’t control, you can be as stoic as you want, it will affect you negatively. It’s not a matter of if, but when.

And it seems to me that you don’t understand that my response was directly to your response to OP, not the #AllMen debate.

Ah I understand better. We have a lot of friends that have kids and they all pretty much had birth in a hospital, and to me it seems like they were a schedule and they all had a scheduled delivery and if the birth wasn’t done by then, the doctors provoked the labor.

We are lucky to have a midwife school program here that trains midwife as expert in pregnancy, birth and early weeks of the babies life, and our experience felt a lot more intimate. Like, they are legit medical expert in their field. The only restriction is that they cannot work with women with at risk pregnancy (so twins, mother ailments, etc).

We had both pregnancy with the same midwife and we were lucky that both times, she was on call when my girlfriend went into labor. We were both times in the same delivery room at the birthhouse. It was radically different than what our friends experienced.

Thanks for sharing

Were the second and third child almost guaranteed to be born by C-section? My GF first childbirth had 2 incidents that had risks for the second pregnancy. We were a bit scared for the second birth. But it when the opposite way. She almost gave birth in the car. There wasn’t even an hour and a half between the first real contractions and the birth of our child.

I’m asking because I am curious to hear about different experiences than mine

This statement doesn’t apply to me. Still, when I am constantly lumped in the same category as rapists, sexual predators and any or all other demeaning terms, it does start to affect my self-esteem and make me doubt myself.

Just like when you look at social medias and all the women are perfect. You know it’s a tuned photo with a lot of work behind it. But you see it all the time : on your phone, TV and ads in general. And it does affect women, even if the beauty standards are irrealist, and humans come in all size and forms.

This is the same principle in the two cases.

That’s why beacon comments were dumb from the beginning I guess.

I have a desk job, but it is stimulating and I work for my friend, so no mega-corpo that makes money off my back. I know what he pays me, what he pays for social security and what he makes off of my hourly rate.

The problem is the busy work and bullshit office politics.

Because you don’t have the stress of the morning routine. You can take your time and live a little. The anomaly is a forced wake-up time.

And greasy pepperoni

It’s like recreating the vacuum of space with words.

PR talk needs to die a fiery death.

You are right about the fact that businesses are not legally obligated to accept cash. I was wrong on that.

As for e-payment not working, it happened to me at least 3 times since last year, and it fucking sucks.

I don’t like to walk with a lot of cash on me, but if I know that there is a outage of payment systems, I can at least use the cash I keep at home to pay for my basic needs.

More options is good in any case. We are already tracked enough as it is, so I understand people that want to use cash.

Ever had a moment where you needed to go buy groceries but couldn’t pay because the payment system is down nation wide?

Many people did many times and if you don’t have cash on you, well you can’t pay for shit.

A cashless society is not a good thing. And that is especially dumb since a merchant can’t refuse legal tender, but the federal government is refusing legal tender by doing this.

We’re in an era where corporations are buying housing at an unprecedented rate.

They have deep pockets, so even though the people holding mortgage will see relief, we will also see more housing bought by corporations.

The normal person cannot compete with the corporations, and they will have to either outbid the corporation, or hope that the seller find their storing touching and sell them the house even if the bid is lower.

So yeah, prices will raise for sure.

Then he can shut the fuck up asking Trudeau to commit a federal crime, and he can work with agencies to contain the members of his party that are named in the reports.

But that would take effort and integrity, the antipod of the conservative party.